Today is Qixi Festival, and I watched a live stream by Zettaranc. He shared his thoughts on the topic of “How a man can love himself.” Firstly, he asked a question: if you died tomorrow, would you regret leaving anything unfinished? This is a profound question that reminds me of Heidegger’s famous concept of “living towards death.” It means that you must achieve important things as soon as possible. Secondly, discover a hobby or habit that you truly love. This can help you go through life more comfortably, as it can prevent you from feeling bored or even approaching nihilism. Thirdly, try to find a person you truly love, regardless of their attitude. This way, you can experience the ruthlessness, indifference, cruelty, and realism of relationships. Fourthly, learn to love yourself after experiencing heartbreak in the third step. Finally, love others.